This little girl really is such a good helper. Even when she makes a mess, she feels bad and chimes, "Lily made a mess." She is trying so hard to make me proud and I just beam at times where she is trying so hard to learn and it backfires. For example, she wants to have "Mommy Juice" (water), but somehow each time she drinks it "Mommy Juice" spills... either on her whatever is nearby. The particular picture below she reached onto my nightstand and spilled my water everywhere. I was nursing and so frustrated and didn't want to interrupt Marco's meal to clean up her mess so quite sternly I told her, "Go get a towel and clean it up." I figured she's get a towel off the back of her bathroom door. Or she'd grab an old towel in her laundry basket and bring it back. I was wrong. Lily went downstairs and climbed up on top of the kitchen table's chairs to grab a heavy beach towel that I had downstairs. (I thought it would be a fabulous idea to try to do Yoga outside on it. My idea wasn't so fabulous.) She lugged the heavy towel all the way upstairs... and then proceeded to wipe up her spilled "mess." I mean... how can you be upset when a little girl puts forth that much effort to clean up after herself? It brought a huge smile to my face and I couldn't help but snap a photo so I could always remember how much of a great little helper she is.


She is also overly eager to make sure that Marco receives enough hugs each day and that any of his needs are met. Whenever he is crying Lily announces to the household, "Marco crying. Marco crying." And it warms my heart that she is so concerned about him and wants him to be happy. Sometimes when Marco is crying she brings him his pacifier. She thinks it will help him by happy again.
And other times that he is crying she brings him her toys.
(Like her Doc McStuffin's stethoscope).
But don't get me wrong... she is into a lot of mischief as well and sometimes her help inhibits us from doing what we need to get done.
One specific day I was showering and drying my hair. As I was showering Lily was in my room "organizing" papers and batteries. And then as I dried my hair she proceeded to take as many items as possible out from underneath the sinks and line them up along side the bathtub. And, bless her heart, its probably because she saw me organizing or cleaning earlier that day and wanted to help. (She just didn't realize that I had already completed that task and didn't need to do it a second time).





This specific day I was making dinner. I look down and notice that Lily has pulled every utensil out from inside the bottom drawer (I put safe utensils down there so she can play with them instead of getting into other things I'd rather not clean up after). I was exasperated. I almost got after her for "making a mess" until I looked at the mess I had created from making stuffed shells for dinner. I can't blame her for taking everything out when she was just trying to "be like Mommy" (even if Mommy is a slob when cooking).
Lily also likes to help out Daddy. When he was fertilizing and seeding the lawn, she had to feel like she was helping out also by "mowing" the lawn with her toy lawnmower. She doesn't understand that her lawnmower has no effect on the lawn whatsoever. But it is so adorable to watch her try and help her daddy.


And this one is my favorite. I bought Lily a kite at Wal-Mart for $1.39. It was a "Frozen" kite with Anna pictured on it. We went outside and tried to use it. It was a bust. It didn't work. But I did happen to get the kite all dirty. Well... since the kite was dirty she wanted to give "Anna" a bath. So she went and pulled down the bath that we use to bathe Marco, and put "Anna" (the kite) in the bath. Then she got a cup from her kitchen and filled it with water (from the fridge). She went back and forth and back and forth doing this a million times (as her cup was extremely small). All she wanted was to give Anna a bath and I couldn't stop her because she really, truly felt like she was helping. She really is such a good girl!
As she continues to grow (and possibly frustrate me) I hope to be able to look back at these endearing moments and smile. I hope it will help me to be more laid back and easy going and appreciate the small things in life. She sure helps me to laugh and love her.