Going along with the popular rhyming children's book Where the Sidewalk Ends by Shel Silverstein, I feel that metaphorically in life, my "sidewalk" ended in Utah.
| There are no sidewalks in Winston Salem. It is a rarity to find one in a neighborhood and it is not a very walkable city... yet. |
"Sidewalks" can drastically mean many different things in your life and can change according to location, age, or attitude.
When a "sidewalk" ends, we often wonder - where do we go now? Do we turn around and try a different path? Do we stand here and wait until a new sidewalk is added on? Or do we bypass the ended sidewalk and take a journey into the unknown... recognizing that the leap of faith may be scary - but what we can learn from it may be universally important in becoming a better person?
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| The bugs here are not only larger, but more abundant than any place that I've ever lived. I think that the only time I'll be excited to see bugs is in the spring time when lightning bugs appear |
As a part of moving, there are phenomenal opportunities and adversarial challenges which need to be overcome. Moving here, I have noticed a lot of different things about North Carolina. They aren't good things - or bad things - but "sidewalk" things that are different and have caught me off guard. Often times they can be expressed negatively, only because we don't know how to adapt to them just quite yet.
| Not only do you only get ONE license plate for your car, but I've seen several cars with place holders for business cards. Ingenious idea, but I've been too timid to actually take one. |
Coming to North Carolina, I've noticed a lot of things that are insanely different from anyplace that I've lived. I experienced this in Warsaw also, but once I decided to embrace the differences - they became a part of me and I soon found myself longing for them when they were gone. It makes me wonder what divergent things I will learn from living here in North Carolina.
For me - I don't see moving from Utah as a good thing or a bad thing - but a "sidewalk" which took me someplace new to experience and learn new things... and hopefully along my walk here in North Carolina, I can be an asset to those that I run into.
| My favorite road in all of Winston Salem. It has a street light, and lanes, but turns into a field within 10 feet. I wonder what will grow here in the future. |

2 comments:
Your journey of moving all around has inspired me. You always look for the positive. Being in CO has had me longing for home tremendously these last few months. I miss Utah. I miss my family. I want to be back. But I guess I should be more like you and embrace this opportunity.
Don't get me wrong. Colorado has been a HUGE blessing to us, but there is no where to go from here. Kent's job isn't something he'd like to do forever and I don't blame him. We both want to be back 'home' and would love for our children to be surrounded by their grandparents and cousins.
I know when and if we ever leave I will miss MANY things about CO, but hopefully I will embrace the journey when the time comes. Who knows, maybe we won't end up in Utah. The unknown is a scary thing. I miss you. I love this post and reading about your new life. We need to catch up sometime. Love you! XOXO
Hey Katie,
Congrats on the move, I hope you're adjusting well! Glad to see things are going OK. :) Miss you!
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